20 THINGS YOU SHOULD KNOW ABOUT COURTSHIP.
1. The fact that we are dating and l have introduced you to the whole world doesn’t mean we are married. If you become ‘unmarryable’ that’s it! Just like I told the whole world of you, I would tell them it’s over!

2. Don’t sweep under the carpet what you can trash in the bin.

3. Let the courtship break up and let the person go. Cry if you will, seek counsel if it’s hard, but never marry a person that you had to hide and deny the truth just to keep! Marriage will burst it open anyway.

4. Courtship actually begins when two persons have the guts to say ‘look at me and see what I truly am’.

5. Courtship is the unearthing process, like a surgical operation. It is a season of final honest exposure. Someone is about to share ‘your life’ and they become entitled to appreciate the good, the bad and the expected/unexpected.

6. If the courtship is pretentious, the marriage will be contentious! Nothing is hidden under the sun.

7. Courtship is like a court of law. If the evidence is not clearly presented, the judgment will be made in error.

8. Courtship is your chance to demand the ‘evidence of marriage’. the substance of things not seen. It is when you look closely and ‘see who your husband or wife’ will truly be.

9. It’s such a stupid thing to turn courtship into ‘sex-ship’, ‘laundry-ship’, ‘soup cooking-ship’ and all those ships that are not relationships. Selah!

10. I wish I could tell you that walking out of a wrong relationship won’t hurt. My dear it will, but please note that weeping in marriage is worse.

11. Courtship is not when you take your ordination as an Evangelist who is preparing to ‘change them in marriage’. That ministry won’t work!

12. Courtship is not a licence to spend ‘weekends’. That’s weakness

13. Courtship is not marriage and if it ends, it is not divorce. It is breakable, and ‘end-able’ if it points to a marriage that will fall!

14. Don’t let things like ‘introduction’ hold you down into a disastrous marriage. No matter the ‘marriage relationship won’t hurt. My clear it will, but please note that weeping in marriage is worse.

15. Courtship is not when you take your ordination as an Evangelist who is preparing to ‘change them in marriage’. That ministry won’t work!

16. Courtship is not a licence to spend ‘weekends’. That’s weakness

17. Courtship is not marriage and if it ends, it is not divorce. It is breakable, and ‘end-able’ if it points to a marriage that will fail!

18. Don’t let things like ‘introduction’ hold you down into a disastrous marriage. No matter the ‘marriage
rites’ done, until you are married, you are not married!

19. Courtship is giving you a peep into marriage, don’t ignore it!

20. Courtship is an entrance exam, if they don’t pass, don’t admit into marriage

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